New Year Resolutions for Stress Relief
Around the first of the year, most of us begin turning our
attention to ways we can improve our lives. While resolutions often center on
developing new habits that will get us into better physical shape, reducing
stress and getting into better mental and emotional shape can provide huge
rewards. Eating right and getting exercise generally top most people’s lists of
goals for the new year. But this year, it might be wise to incorporate new
habits that will reduce stress and increase happiness and overall life
satisfaction.
Here are some important steps you can take to be a happier,
healthier and more relaxed you in the coming year:
Get Enough Sleep
Being sleep deprived can be both a cause and an effect of
being stressed. While stress can keep people up at night, operating on too few
hours of sleep can make people less productive, more emotional, and more
reactive to stressful events in their lives. This year, you can gain
significant benefits by striving for better quality and greater quantity of
sleep at night.
Have a Hobby
While you may have gone to school and been involved with
sports and fun activities as a child, it’s important to keep learning, growing,
and doing things you enjoy throughout your adult life. Having a regular hobby
can provide a necessary outlet for mental stimulation and stress relief, and
help you maintain a balanced lifestyle. It can also provide you with an
appropriate amount of eustress, the positive type of stress that keeps you
feeling vital and alive. From a positive psychology perspective, the right
hobby can bring the benefits of flow that all gratifications bring.
Because all work and no play can make anyone a little nuts,
I’ve included some resources to help you keep life interesting. Taking care of
yourself in this way can be an important step toward living the life you want
to be living.
Invest In Your Social Circle
We are, by nature, social creatures, and the company we keep
can have a huge impact on quality of life. Good friends and close family can
celebrate with us during our best times and support us through our worst. A
social network of healthy relationships can be a buffer against stress and
provide many other benefits. However, conflicted relationships can cause
additional stress and frustration and even affect our health.
This year, you can strongly improve your quality of life by
seeking out healthy new friendships, improving the relationships you already
have (with healthy communication and conflict resolution strategies), and
letting go of relationships that drain you.
Get More Music In Your Life
Now that music therapy has become a growing new field used
by hospitals and therapists, the benefits of music are becoming more and more
known. Playing music a simple and easy way to elevate your mood and change your
energy. This makes it a prime way to relieve stress. You can play music in your
car during your commute to feel less stressed as you drive, or put music on as
you exercise to infuse some additional energy into your workout. You can even
have music on in the background as you go about your day, bringing a more
soothing feel to all of your activities. Adding more music to your life is an
effective and attainable goal for the coming year.
Cull Your Clutter
Living in chaos can create stress. Whether you’re overloaded
by clutter, disorganized with your schedule, or carrying excess emotional
baggage, disarray can make you feel scattered and rob you of resources. While
many of us live in cluttered homes, for example, most of us don’t realize that
the clutter can rob us of time (as we look for keys and lost items), money (as
we pay late fees on bills and things we can’t find) and peace of mind (as
sitting in a cluttered room can drain your energy without you even realizing
it). This year, you can take weight off your shoulders by being more organized
with your time, giving away things you don’t need and maintaining your home as
a haven. Shooting for perfection isn't necessary--even small changes in these
areas can create a tangible difference in how you feel; start small and make
gradual changes, or give yourself a lifestyle makeover starting today.
Have Some Quick Stress Relievers On-Hand
Sometimes stressful situations seem to culminate quickly,
and we can go from feeling fine to overwhelmed in a very short period of time.
When this happens, it's impractical to stop your life to go practice yoga, get
a massage, or try other effective but time-consuming stress relievers. It’s
best to have a quick and effective way to turn off your fight or flight
response and trigger your relaxation response. The following techniques are
easy to learn and can be practiced virtually anywhere and at any time. This
year, it would be a great idea to try a few of them and see what works best for
you.
Have a Long-Term Stress Relief Practice
While quick stress relievers are important to have on-hand,
it’s also essential to have at least one regular stress relieving practice in
your life. Having one regular activity that you do to relieve stress in your
life can help you to keep your overall stress levels lower so that you’re less
likely to feel overwhelmed. Several stress relief habits can help you to be
less reactive toward the stressors you face in your life by lowering your
physical and / or emotional reactivity to stressors.
Cultivate Optimism
Many people don’t realize that the way they see the world
has a heavy impact on their stress levels, but it’s true: pessimism and
negative self-talk can cause you significant amounts of stress. Whether you see
situations threats or challenges, beneficial or negative, stressful or
exciting, is a matter of your point of view. Fortunately, your point of view
can be changed with practice. How much happier, more productive, and less
stressed could you be if you omitted some self-defeating thought patterns?
Reduce Job Stress
According to a recent stress poll, people experience the
greatest level of stress at their jobs. Over 50% of people feel close to
burnout sometimes or often, according to another poll. It’s not surprising
considering the long hours, heavy workload, and other factors that come into
play in today’s workplace. However, some jobs are more stressful than others.
Feeling overwhelmed and burned out by your job can add stress to virtually
every area of your life. This year, one of the best things you can do for
yourself is examine your work life and see what changes you can make in order
to reduce stress. This may include finding tools to increase your productivity,
changing certain aspects of your job, adding to your life outside of work so
you feel less stressed in general, or even examining whether you’re in the
right field.
See you all tomorrow.
Buh-bye
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